The War of the Rose.
Nowadays, many marriages have reached the break due to lack of commitment. People think that it is enough just to get home and stay there, however, it is necessary to cultivate relationships within the family environment. We handle this by sowing love between family members, learning how to manage forces, balancing the emotions and providing a space for communication between everyone.
Some marriages forget the time of engagement when it was all happiness, no matter the weariness, the weather or lack of time, because the important thing was to be with the beloved. After the wedding everything changes for many of them; they forget the promises made in the past and the routine, lack of communication, work stress and other factors begin to affect the relationship and make the hearts go away. It has not to be like this, this is why the communication within the couple is very important and should not be missed.
We must give the best of ourselves to our couples and children, no matter how tired we are or how bad our day has been since loving relationships as well as meaningful communication are relevant at home which is why we must dedicate them some time. At the end, this prevents that we may be tempted to look for outside home what we already have inside, but we simply have neglected. Consider that many of the problems experienced by today's society are due to deviation of the eyes to things that should not be viewed as they are not God's purpose. If the temptation knocks at your door is the right time to surrender your heart to the Lord and ask him to take over supplying the needs at home, and reign harmony and peace.
God will do His part and work in your favor, but you also must do your part in all this. How?
1. Learn how to give up. You do not always have the right in everything so you must accept that your partner can help you see things from another perspective.
2. Husband, do not forget that women like to be heard.
3. Wife, always remember that the man deserves to be respected.
4. Cause proper spaces to communicate.
To have a harmonious marriage and family life is simpler than we think, we just have to keep eyes on God and not forget his purpose in our lives. We should also remember that more than husbands we are friends who need rely on the other to succeed. Be transparent all the time with your partner and do not be ashamed to show you as you are with him/her; work on your marriage so that this will last a lifetime, hone your communication and fill your love tank full.
Pastors Carlos and Maria Aréjulo.
Compiled by Maribel Rodriguez.
Translated by Daniela Gámez
Nowadays, many marriages have reached the break due to lack of commitment. People think that it is enough just to get home and stay there, however, it is necessary to cultivate relationships within the family environment. We handle this by sowing love between family members, learning how to manage forces, balancing the emotions and providing a space for communication between everyone.
Some marriages forget the time of engagement when it was all happiness, no matter the weariness, the weather or lack of time, because the important thing was to be with the beloved. After the wedding everything changes for many of them; they forget the promises made in the past and the routine, lack of communication, work stress and other factors begin to affect the relationship and make the hearts go away. It has not to be like this, this is why the communication within the couple is very important and should not be missed.
We must give the best of ourselves to our couples and children, no matter how tired we are or how bad our day has been since loving relationships as well as meaningful communication are relevant at home which is why we must dedicate them some time. At the end, this prevents that we may be tempted to look for outside home what we already have inside, but we simply have neglected. Consider that many of the problems experienced by today's society are due to deviation of the eyes to things that should not be viewed as they are not God's purpose. If the temptation knocks at your door is the right time to surrender your heart to the Lord and ask him to take over supplying the needs at home, and reign harmony and peace.
God will do His part and work in your favor, but you also must do your part in all this. How?
1. Learn how to give up. You do not always have the right in everything so you must accept that your partner can help you see things from another perspective.
2. Husband, do not forget that women like to be heard.
3. Wife, always remember that the man deserves to be respected.
4. Cause proper spaces to communicate.
To have a harmonious marriage and family life is simpler than we think, we just have to keep eyes on God and not forget his purpose in our lives. We should also remember that more than husbands we are friends who need rely on the other to succeed. Be transparent all the time with your partner and do not be ashamed to show you as you are with him/her; work on your marriage so that this will last a lifetime, hone your communication and fill your love tank full.
Pastors Carlos and Maria Aréjulo.
Compiled by Maribel Rodriguez.
Translated by Daniela Gámez
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